Handling Personal Praise

BIBLE VERSE FOR TODAY… Let another praise you, and not your own mouth; a stranger, and not your own lips….The crucible is for silver, and the furnace is for gold, and a man is tested by his praise.” Proverbs 27:2,21 NLT

I remember a fellow legislator telling me she was going to use my saying, “I’m tired talking about me, why don’t you talk about me for a while.” I’m not sure if that really applies to that many people. For most, handling praise can be a challenge. When is it best to “sell yourself” and when is it good to have others provide the endorsement?

In my own experience that was something new to me as I entered the world of politics. As this election cycle comes to an end, we have been made very much aware of the value of “endorsements” for candidates and the support those who speak on behalf of a candidate.

Solomon communicates some basic “age-old” truths.

The praise of others does give credibility. It is always interesting to find out what others think about you. Sometimes that can be good and bad?! But our lives are not lived in a vacuum, but in relationship. The encouraging words of others is an important part of our life and contributes to our success in life. Your view of your life and accomplishments is important, but when there is verification from others, it carries a great deal of impact. That is why resumes contain “references.”

Praise also reveals. Solomon uses the comparison to the “testing” or proving of silver and gold. Praise from others may reveal things to ourselves that we are not aware of. It also challenges us to accept praise with a spirit of humility. That is because we know ourselves, better than others. Have you heard the saying, “Don’t be quick to believe your own press releases” ?

Praise also needs a “reality check.” Faithful are the wounds of a friend;
 profuse are the kisses of an enemy.” (Proverbs 27:6 NLT) We need to understand the difference between genuine praise, which shows appreciation and words that are more for manipulation. Our ability to handle the “positive” and “negative” reveals maturity and wisdom. 

When it comes to life, there is a time and place to “sing our own praises.” We just need to be sure we not always singing a solo.

Prayer for today… Lord, help us to be wise in handing praise. Let us walk with humility and confidence in the gifts and accomplishments that are part of our life.